Wet Wednesday

Hellooo Lovers

It’s a beautiful fall day here in London and I’ve been scheming and working away this morning, on how to make my sexiest, fullest life. It seems to me I need to bring a little luxurious lust back in my day to day. I’ve been healing and letting go, while still holding on to Flynt; I’m still quite surprised how easy the transition has been on my heart. I love Flynt and a part of me was in love with him but I was careful not to fall in love; we both know what we want in this life, as far as family, tribe and hearth and it’s so very different. Life is moving too quickly to dawdle with these things and we’ve fast moved to becoming closer friends, almost family; to me he feels like a brother. I think that little part of me will always be in love with him, with part of him and I’ll hold that sweetness so dear to me but know I can give more by being a sister and a friend.

And so I look for lust in other places. I had an interesting weekend with the Kinky Salon party… When the day came I was feeling tired, nervous and disconnected from Flynt; we were to be each others buddy for the event, you must have a buddy! I was feeling, more accurately, a bit confused by our relationship, as my heart was feeling a bit hopeful about reconnecting and I was horny as hell. I smoked all day to avoid coping with all the things I was feeling, an indulgent day. The party was fun but I was stoned and overwhelmed by the many things I was feeling, seeing and thinking. I managed to find some focus with a tall gentleman who I have connected with a few times before. I was initially attracted to his warm face and the way his eyes changed when he listened, the first time we met it was sweet. The next time was more lusty, at a time when I was feeling very soft and needing only love and light, it was nice but not what I really wanted. I wanted that sweetness again. At the Salon I appreciated the way he kissed me on the cheek, even as I moved to meet his lips, again I felt warmed by his attentions, his sweetness, his eyes. Later than evening we fucked a little, fully dressed by the bar, just beside the crowd; only fingers but enough for me to ask him to stop, I didn’t want to come on the dance floor and the girlfriend I borrowed my skirt from requested ‘no jizz’ and I’m sure that included my own.

After our fun I felt so many things, and many of them to do with my settling feelings with Flynt. He taught me how to gush and come and part of me wondered if that would only be with him or if I was changed because of him; it would appear the later is true. I think that the part of me that’s still in love, hoped it would only be with him. The encounter also highlighted something else I’ve been feeling, it’s been six, almost seven months since I had an sex involving a cock and… well… I’m kind of nervous. I’m nervous because I feel vulnerability on a new level now, I’m nervous because my sensuality and sexuality has changed so much since meeting Flynt, I’m nervous because part of me only wants to fuck people who love me. I’m excited too, for fun, for sweet penetration, for cock wrapping comes. I wonder how many times I will feel like a virgin in my life.

Sooo I’m bringing in, literally, the lust and bringing it to a new level around me. I want to have some fucking sexy safe empowering shuddering fun, I do not think this is too much to ask for. I want to be desired by virtuous and horny men and women. I want to be fucked with gracious intent, loving dominance and purest passion. I want to be adored and be allowed to adore. I want dirty texts, flirty photos, audio orgasms and everything inside me. Again. I do not think this is too much to ask for…

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To bring you some lust and to celebrate Wet and Wanton Wednesday
I’ve decided to do a little recording of my story Reunion
Here is Part I…
Please enjoy! and see what the other Wanton ones are up to…

Love Lust & Light

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Rubyyy Jones

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Link Looove

Hi Loversss!

I Have Got Some Blog & Link Looove For You This Lovely Fridayyy

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Would You Take Sex Advice From John Mayer?… Jenny McCarthy?…

“OK, I know a lot of people have a hard time talking dirty—they don’t know what to say, how to start, or when to end it. Also, at first they will think they sound ridiculous. And they might. But let me just say that talking dirty is so important in sex… Olivia Munn

“I’m a promoter of masturbation. Don’t sleep around – learn yourself first. Guys do, but girls don’t. And that’s why girls have so many bad experiences. But you can know your body, know yourself, know what feels good … You don’t have to give yourself away to have sexual relevance… Taylor Momsen

12 Celebs Give Sex Advice via @TheFrisky

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Sonya Barnett Writes For Huffington Post Canada:

Evil G has grown up with adult vocabulary. We were never ones for baby talk, and certainly not ones who give genitals pet names like ‘weenie’ or ‘hoohoo.’ If that were the case, I may as well call his hands ‘grabbies’ (we’re not, however, sticklers for proper anatomical terms; ‘Balls’ is heard often, as slang is quite common in our house). We’re set on using liberated and shameless language, instead of enforcing bullshit taboos like being shy of that place down there. Anytime he has asked a question, we’ve answered as frankly and honestly as possible.

I don’t want my son growing up with nervous energy and embarrassment over something so overly hyped as sex. It’s just sex. That thing people do to feel good and make others feel good. There are worse things than sharing orgasms (as long as he has a condom) and it would be nice for him to understand that sex is for more than reproduction and doesn’t have to be done only with someone you love. There’s too much stigma attached to something that is natural and not harmful…

Having ‘The Talk’ via @keyholesessions

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Sex In The Brain, And What It Reveals About The Neuroscience Of Deep Pleasure…

Bliss, both sacred and profane, shares the diminution of self-awareness, alterations in bodily perception and decreased sense of pain. And while the left frontal lobe may be linked to pleasure, the other three characteristics are bilateral.

Absence of pain is predictably akin to pleasure, but the other two—losing a sense of identity and of bodily limits—are less obvious. Self-awareness, apparently, is no picnic. William James described the self as that kernel of consciousness that persists throughout various experiences and sensations. The self is divided between the stream of consciousness and an internal observer—except in those rare moments when we dissolve into mysticism.

The Neurobiology Of Bliss – Sacred And Profane via The Scientific American

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Sooo Much (Pornographic) Love! Still Loving This Project, Do Check It Out

And Thanks To @CamilleCrimson For Quoting My TILT Blog:

This Is The Kind Of Wonderful Project, That Shows People You Can Have ‘Porn’ That’s Sensual, That’s Romantic With Real Connections And Real Orgasms. It May Not Be For Everyone But Some People Need This To Be Turned On And They Feel Excluded By Most Of The Commercial Porn Readily Available…

Love For Pornographic Love via @LillyanneBloom

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Looking At ‘Positive Psychology’ And How It Can Effect Our Sex Lives

Love is unconditional, but the growth is not. This is of tremendous importance in our sex lives. Both in how we regard ourselves and our partners, as well as seeing our way toward making our sex lives even better. You come to a place where you see what can be improved, but you also are thrilled with the very best. Now you can show and speak your happiness and pleasure; no longer taking it for granted, no longer leaving adoration and awe unspoken.

You Come To A Place… via @EricAmaranth

Love Lust & Light

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R
Rubyyy Jones

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Daddy Detox

Hello My Lovers

Hoping You Are Wonderful Todayyy

I Am Doing Surprisingly Well!

Surprisingly because I have, Flynt and I have, changed a boundary in our connection, one that, for the moment, means we will not be lovers. Of course the thought of this, the reality, makes me feel a bit sad, a bit teary but I’m getting better at this broken heart thing; I’ve had lots of practice this year. I’m learning to turn the aching heart into freely letting go and letting be and I’m getting better at this too. It’s not an end, it’s a shift, ‘time will tell’ and all that, but I feel freer, I feel a weight, a heaviness, perhaps darkness, lifted. I need my lovers, experiences and life to be vibrant and uplifting, I need to be allowed to love and give with all my heart and I need to loved and honoured in return and I need to be constantly evolving, moving forward, expanding; it’s a big time for me in my life, it’s a big time.

With the end of this phase with Flynt, I have decided there must be an end to a little role/emotional scenario I have adopted as well, which brings me to the Daddy Detox. Now, when I say’ Daddy’ I’m not meaning the one whose sperm and efforts contributed to my conception, I am referring more to an emotional Father role. Just to clarify: I have a pretty good relationship with my own Dad and it’s getting better all the time as we grow together and learn about love individually; in fact I cried on the phone with him about Flynt yesterday, he’s a good Dad. I don’t look for ‘Daddy’s’ because of any patriarchal angst or disconnection, in fact I don’t look at all, they come to me. It is, I believe, part of my Karma.

Tex was the first to bring the D into my life, a fact which is now hilarious since I’ve realized he’s a total submissive who would probably prefer me to dress him in stockings and suspenders and rail him from behind, than for me to call him the D word. Live and learn! Although Tex was not really, is not actually a top, domme-y guy, he very much dominated my mind (my favouuurite) and so we were always playing with stories, concepts and roles. I have a little sex game I like to play when I say: tell me something you want to ask me ‘to do’ that you think I would be nervous to do. I think Tex’s voice cracked as he said in a very British manner: perhaps we could pretend I was your Daddy? and he told me a little story about me coming home from boarding school and how much I’d grown, yaddi yaddi yaaaaddaaa.

Pack Up Your Troublesss

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It Has Been Brought To My Attention
That N My Latest Diaryesque Blog Post
That I Seemed A Bit Depressed

I Want You To Know I’m Ok
I’m Wonderful N Fact
I Want You To Know That I’m Moving Forward
And That, Takes Time & Honesty
I Want You To Know I’m Not Afraid Of Darkness
Cause It Takes Me Into T Light

I Like To Flirt W T Dark, W T Edge, W T Line

I’m Fine

Please Remember That I Feel Things Deep
I Feel Them W My Whole Being
I Get Pulled Into These Feelings But I Rarely Get Lost

I Resurface, Renewed, Rubyyy

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Love Lust & Light

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R
Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Day 33

WOW!

Loversss!
I Can’t Belieeeve It’s T End Of My 33 Days Of Love & Light
*Deeep Breath*
Thank You For Spending These Lovey Days W Me My Darlings
And BIG Thank Yous To All T Angels Who Played My Love Game
And Shared Their Thoughts On Their Love & Light

I’ve Saved A Few Gems Because I Want To Keep T Love Going!
So If Anyone Would Like To Play T Love Game
Please Just Send Me A Quick Email On Rubyyyjones Gmail Com

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I’ve Been Holding Space W These 33 Days
I’ve Been Learning A Lot About What It Means For Me To Love
It’s Been Fascinating Learning About How Others Love
And How Many People Are Afraid To Love, B Loved, Know Love
Fair Enoughhh
It’s A Brave & Simple Thing To Love, To Share Light
But What This Time Has Reaffirmed For Me
Is That T Greatest Love Of Your Life Is… You
That Loving, Knowing & Honoring Yourself
Will Give You T Life You Dream Of
That Sharing Your Brightest, Purest Self/Light
Will Keep T World Out Of Darkness

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T Love Game W Rubyyy Jones

1) What Do You Love Most About Yourself?
My Willingness

2) What Did You Love Most About Your Last, Not Latest, Lover
What An Absolute Sweetheart Was Gallo, Our Time Together Was Brief; Honest, Fun & Hot
I Loved His Ability To Grow & Appreciate Whole Heartedly + His Sweet & Cheekyyy Grin

3) What’s T First Song That Comes To Your Head When I Say… Love Song!
I’m Such A Cheater…BUT T Entire Jeff Buckley ‘Grace’ Album

Also, Leonard Cohen’s…

And For My Music Theatre Roots

(PS Victoria Clark Is A Goddesss)

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4) What Colour Is Your Light?
Iridescent White

5) What Lights You Up, No Matter What?
Swimmming, Giftsss, Kissses, T Pop Of A Champagne Cork

6) How Do You Bring Light To T World?
Rubyyy Jones Is T Light I Share

7) 3 Words To Describe T Way You Love
  All Or Nothing

8 ) Which Symbol Represents Love For You?

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9) What Word Do You Use For Light?
Light & Love & Lust
Higher Self

10) Write Your Own Version… “All You Need Is ____”

Looove

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Love Lust & Light

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Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Day 31

Part 2…

T Next Love Game Player Is T Devilishly Delightful Annie Player
Oh
My
Goodness…
I Wish She Could Read This To You…
She Has T Sexiest, Raspy, Naughty Voice…

Annie Player Is An Amazing Artist, Writer, Poet & Founder Of T Erotic Meet…

T Erotic Meet was established (by Annie!) to bring together all manner of artistic pervert; writers, artists, photographers and the like, to network and collaborate. I went to my first meet in London last night and it was so inspiring and fun to meet these gorgeous folks; so many lovely sexy people, building hot projects infused with love and light. I was very sad to leave early but am sooo excited to create, create, CREATE! Many thanksss to Miss Player for founding this exciting community, I look forward to the next meet! Check out the website, join or follow on FB or twitter…

And I Also Want To Say…

Annie,
Thank Youuu For Being A Light N T Erotic World
Thank You
Thaaank You

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Now…
Let’s hear from the lady herself…

T Love Game W Annie Player

1) What Do You Love Most About Yourself?
I love my spirit most, I’ve always felt free from the mundane and so I’ve collected an incredible amount of happy memories and amazing friends!
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2) What Did You Love Most About Your Last, Not Latest, Lover
My last lover is a kind and fabulously fun guy. His lust for life meant we had many adventures together… Oh and being an outdoors man, he does have a hot, firm, tanned physique!

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3) What’s T First Song That Comes To Your Head When I Say… Love Song!

Dean Martin & Helen O‘Conell “How do you like your eggs in the morning…”
Can’t help but smile!

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4) What Colour Is Your Light?
Sounds obvious but Yellow
It just represents sunshine and happiness and summer fun!

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5) What Lights (Cheers) You Up, No Matter What?

Being with friends.  I’m lucky enough to have met (and still meet) many truly beautiful, kind, loving and fun folk throughout my life and because I rarely stay still, they’re dotted all over the world so they’re always there, where ever my happy feet happen to take me.

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6) How Do You Bring Light To T World?
I’d love to say through song, but that simply brings tears to the eyes… I guess I bring light through empathy.  I’m very open and receptive to all lifestyle choices and attitudes – even the ones I don’t agree with I can understand and I’m often told that people find it easy to simply talk to me about stuff they may not often be able to share…

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7) 3 Words To Describe T Way You Love
Ooh good question Rubyyy! Hmm… Fully, Freely, With Fun
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8 ) Which Symbol Represents Love For You?
Hugs!

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9) What Word Do You Use For Light?

Light is Happiness
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10) Write Your Own Version… “All You Need Is ____”
All you need is belief in yourself. Belief that you are doing the best that you can and that it’s enough.  Even when you ‘fail’ you are one step closer to success.

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“Happiness isn’t getting what you want, It’s wanting what you’ve got”

I read this quote at a very early age (still haven’t figured out who it’s by… anyone?) and it’s one that’s stuck with me throughout my life.

Which is probably why I don’t have a big house, the latest shiny gadgets, fancy car etc.  (actually, I don’t have the car because I was far too busy partying at 17 to learn to drive and then just left the country).  Instead I chose adventure and new life experiences which has given me crazy stories to tell and an abundance of memories – even the shit that sometimes comes with spontaneity is now a fond, funny (fuzzy) memory…
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 (Blame my Mother but I love this!)

For some folk, having shiny things does give them light.
For me, It’s living and learning.
Either way, it’s easy to forget just how much light we have in our lives and the quote above is a simple reminder that we don’t need whatever it is that we’re striving for to be happy.
Yes, it might be nice, it might be fabulous!
It’s not necessary though.
Appreciation of all that you have right now.
Remembering and /or realising all of the good in this moment…
That to me is contentment, true happiness… light.

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Annie Player is an erotic poet, artist, and event organiser… amongst other things.

She holds the Erotic Meet where creatives get together to socialise and share ideas, judges the London Erotic Awards, performs a little and laughs a lot.  You can find her Poetry and Motions blog and her erotic ebooks at www.missplayer.co.uk

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Merci Miss Player!

Love Lust & Light

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R
Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Day 31

Part I…

Hi Loooverrrsss

Hope You’re Enjoying T Looove Game
It’s Been So Much Fun Reading Them & Sharing Them W You
AND
Since I’ve Had So Much Fun, Why Stop Now?!

Keeeping T Looove Flowing!

This Game Will Continue Past Our 33 Days Of Love & Light!

I’ve Got Some Wonderful Upcoming Love Game Players To Share W You
And I’d Love To Have More More More
Sooo Please Send Me A Quick Email rubyyyjones Gmail Com
When I Have A Spare Moment, I Will Email You All T Info

N T Meantime…

T Love Game W Parv…

1. What Do You Love Most About Yourself?
My complete and utter randomness. I always surprise even myself with how far and wide I can take things.*Chuckles*

2. What Did You Love Most About Your Last, Not Latest, Lover?
His overwhelmingly subtle sensuality, and with it the completeness and total care with which he looked at me.

3. What’s T First Song That Comes To Your Head When I Say… Love Song!
Draw Your Swords by Angus & Julia Stone – the most painfully in love song I have ever heard.

4. What Colour Is Your Light?
I immediately think the deepest sunlit ocean green, but that could be symbolic of finally being ready to take the plunge.

5. What Lights (Cheers) You Up, No Matter What?
The glittery light of the stars. I’ll never forget running barefoot across muddy fields deep in the French countryside shouting “look at the stars. LOOK at the STARS”

6. How Do You Bring Light To T World?
Through laughter. Good things happen and bad things happen. These are transient states. So wherever possible I try to laugh and get people to laugh with me because that (and
love) transcends everything.

7. 3 Words To Describe T Way You Love?
“I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach…”

8. Which Symbol Represents Love For You?
My favourite flower. A lover would know which one it is and when to pick it for me.

9. What Word Do You Use For Light?
Waheguru. It implies ‘wonder at the divine light eliminating spiritual darkness’.

10.Write Your Own Version…
“All You Need Is peanut butter ” ;-b
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Chasing the Light

The first time I chased the light.

It was a rainy spring evening. The sun had set and the engines of the jet started
to rev up. It was no ordinary jet plane. The engines started to spin faster. I was
nervous. I dug my nails into the soft luxury leather of the most perfectly formed
seat and I closed my eyes. Within minutes, we would be taking off.

Pressed deep into the curves of my seat, the g-force kept my body firmly in place.
My nails dug deep, and then deeper into the leather and I shut my eyes tight as we glided effortlessly into the air. Then the jet steadied and the lights that signalled safety came on. My grip relaxed. First, my eyes opened a little and then they widened. We had broken through the rain and clouds, higher than I had ever been before or would ever go again. We were surfing the atmosphere, seducing the stars.

That was when I first caught a glimpse of her.

From the corner of my eye, I caught her subtle glow. The softness of her curves,
her alluring magic. She had me gripped, but I had yet to look at her. I turned, drawing my face closer in her direction. Through the smallest of views, I pressed my face against her as far as I could. I snuck a peek from where I had come, where her arm stretched out in one direction, and the sky was alight with stars in velvet fire coloured night. Then I looked to where her other arm was pointed, and I held my breath.

In the west, the sun was rising and its rays sneaked closer to the slumber that was expanding out in to the east. In front of me, and high above, the darkness and the
light entwined over the expansive ocean. There was no light and there was no dark, just a glow playing on the perfect curves of her stretched out on the horizon. My eyes followed the shine and that was when I looked at her. Glistening in the dewy light there she was, the Earth, as I had never seen her before.

That was the first time I chased the light.

This was the one moment in my life when I should’ve had my camera with me. I’ve never forgotten that moment. I remember that view every day, and when I remember it I wish I’d taken a bl**dy picture. Ever since then, I have never left home without my camera.

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Parvinder Roopray

Prolific photo-documenter of everything …some would say annoying.

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Thank You Sooo Much Miss Parv!
My Inbox Kept Eating This Little Nugget, And No Wonder, What A Delicious Piece
Much Love To Her…

Love Lust & Light

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R
Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Day 29

Things I Looove Thursday

Lipsss/tick

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Thoughtful & Stylish Blog / Rarely Wears Lipstick / Lori Smith
Poet & Performer / Ernesto Sarezale
Naked Boys Singing

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Introducing Artist Natalie Irish
She Paints W Her Lipsss…

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My New A4 Filofax / Ohhh Mama!
Mantra Chanting / Beautiful Buzzz N Lips & Heart
Pompadour Pink / Rockalily Lipstick

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T Love Game W ReeRee Rockette Of Rockalily Lipstick

1) What Do You Love Most About Yourself?
I love my ability to be proactive. I am the friend you come to when you need advice on getting something done.

2) What Did You Love Most About Your Last, Not Latest, Lover
I loved his accent! He was also kind, and we shared the same sense of humour.

3) What’s T First Song That Comes To Your Head When I Say… Love Song!
Bon Jovi ‘Always’

4) What Colour Is Your Light?
Rockalily Rockette Red

5) What Lights (Cheers) You Up, No Matter What?
My friends and a bottle of a wine.

6) How Do You Bring Light To T World?
I like to think I’m a positive person who encourages others to reach their full potential.

7) 3 Words To Describe T Way You Love
I love cautiously but wholeheartedly and fully.

8 ) Which Symbol Represents Love For You?
Perhaps a lock and key.

9) What Word Do You Use For Light?
Strength.

10) Write Your Own Version… “All You Need Is ____”
All you need is a belief that you can be whatever you want to be.

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Kisssing / For Hoursss / T Best
Tootsie Pops / T Red Ones
Straws / I Love Them / I Want These

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My Favourite MAC Shades
Rebel
Snob
Rubyyy Woo
Gaga Viva Glam
Lickable

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87 Souls

Photo Blog Of T Fabulous Daniella Maiorano

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Love Lust & Light

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Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Day 28

Loversss!

Time For Some Erotica Looove

My Second Review For T Lovely

For Books Sake…

 

“…For my second LLL selection I’ve chosen Dark Desires; twenty stories of alien (vampire, demon, ghost) love and lust. Now I have to admit, I can get on board with the whole sexy vampire thing, and I’m pretty sure that werewolf on True Blood is the most perfect man I’ve ever seen and I’d love to…read a story about him...”

 

 

 

Love Lust & Light

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Rubyyy Jones

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Love & Light: Part II

Who Doesn’t Love Seconds?

T Love Game W Miss Rebecca Bond

1) What Do You Love Most About Yourself?
My ability to recognise my true self and be that person when I’m in the company of those
who truly matter.

2) What Did You Love Most About Your Last, Not Latest, Lover
How that with just one kiss, he would make me feel like I was the only girl in the world…as
Rihanna would say. Clever girl.

3) What’s T First Song That Comes To Your Head When I Say… Love Song!
Falling In Love (Is Hard On The Knees) – Aerosmith. Steve Tyler – mine (whaaat?! He’s
scrumballs!)

4) What Colour Is Your Light?
Dark. Black is my light. I’m more comfortable in the dark, both body and mind. Darkness
allows my imagination to flourish and shine brightly. Yeah…the irony!

5) What Lights (Cheers) You Up, No Matter What?
New York City. My one true love. Looking at a photograph or reading an article about it can
bring me out of whatever daily grump I’m in (I have many a-daily grump). Oh, and Sebastien
Chabal (my other true love).

6) How Do You Bring Light To T World?
Quite honestly, I have no idea…maybe I don’t! But you’ve certainly got me thinking that
perhaps I should be a little more ‘light’ centric.

7) 3 Words To Describe T Way You Love

Wholeheartedly – it’s all or nothing

Selfishly – I like to have my cake and eat it too

Fiercely – protecting those I love at all costs

8 ) Which Symbol Represents Love For You?
There isn’t one. Love is a complex emotion and therefore no symbol exists that can
represent its intensity. It’s a force so powerful and uncontrollable and it’s how I act through
the emotion that symbolises (or represents) the love I feel for another.

9) What Word Do You Use For Light?
Profound as I am, I really do just use the word ‘light’ for, er…‘light’.

10) Write Your Own Version… “All You Need Is ____”

…a little bit love, a lot of light and an obscene amount of laughter. Because let’s face it,
without the giggles, the rest just goes to arse!
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Into the Dark

Ever feel like you’re walking through life with your eyes shut? Walking around in the darkness,
shrouded in bitterness and uncertainty. Yeah? Me too. Sucks doesn’t it. Do you, like me, allow
yourself a few moments to wallow in it? To let the darkness consume you for just a few minutes
before banishing it for good? Good. That’s good.

Don’t ever let it take over. Don’t let it penetrate a beautiful heart only to turn that beauty into
something else. Something ugly. Something dark. Don’t let the black seep in and spit on the flame
that usually shines so bright. Don’t let the fire dim so only a few ashen embers remain.

What soothes your soul? Cooking perhaps – bake a cupcake, give it to a child and use the energy
from their smile to push you forth. Maybe you can sing – give the performance of your lifetime and
watch the enjoyment your talent can bring to others. Me? Words are my therapy. I write. Not a
journal though, why would I want to spew all my grumbles and gripes onto a page only to discover
the discarded notepad years later and read about how miserable I was? Nope, I channel the emotion
into something else, something new – a torrid tale of emotional angst or a steamy story about
unbridled lust. Maybe unrequited love.

So, whenever you feel that darkness creeping into your world, banish it with your light before it has
a chance to settle. Let your flame burn brightly and the love flow freely from within. That way, no
matter how afraid of the dark you are, it’s inconsequential, because there is always light at the end
of your tunnel.

And never, ever, underestimate the power of a smile.

*cue Alicia Keys ‘Wait Til You See My Smile’*

Rebecca Bond, author of romance and erotica. Daily moaner, hourly scowler, detective
loving, caffeine addicted, NYC obsesso and all-‘round emitter of awesomeness. Find out more about Rebecca Bond by visiting her website www.missrebeccabond.co.uk or connecting with her via Facebook (MissRebeccaBond) and Twitter (@MissRebeccaBond).

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