Rubyyy Notes

My Ma Thinks The Lyrics Are Quite A Good Fit
And If Anyone Knows Rubyyy
It’s The Lady Who Birthed Her!
xxx

She would never say where she came from
Yesterday don’t matter if it’s gone
While the sun is bright
Or in the darkest night
No one knows
She comes and goes

Goodbye, Rubyyy Tuesday
Who could hang a name on you?
When you change with every new day
Still Im gonna miss you…

Don’t question why she needs to be so free
Shell tell you it’s the only way to be
She just can’t be chained
To a life where nothings gained
And nothings lost
At such a cost

There’s no time to lose, I heard her say
Catch your dreams before they slip away
Dying all the time
Lose your dreams
And you will lose your mind.
Aint life unkind?

Goodbye, Rubyyy Tuesday
Who could hang a name on you?
When you change with every new day
Still Im gonna miss you…

Love Lust & Light

♥
R
Rubyyy Jones

On Twitter @rubyyyjones
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Glaaam Happenings…

Hello You!

Ooooo London Is Buzzing Right Nowww
It’s Raining One Day, It’s Boiling The Next!
Things Are Happening For Awesome People
Things Are Happening For Mean People
It’s Alllllll Happening!

And I’m Excited!

And I’m Excited To Share With You
A Wonderful Experience I Had A Little While Ago
A Day Of Glam, New & Fun With…

MY DRESS ME UP AND SHOOT ME EXPERIENCE

   I met the lovely Steve Hart at the World Burlesque Games Opening Gala, introduced to me by the foxy and Dress Me Up And Shoot Me spokesmodel and strip superstar Dinah Might. After sharing many shows and laughs together, Steve invited me to come and do a tour of his studios and have a little photo playtime with him and his fabulous team.

   Steve Hart Photography is located in Slough, just a short and sweet trip from Victoria station and I made my train with just minutes to spare, clutching my triple soy latte and looking unanimously not fabulous, feeling a bit groggy but mostly veryyy excited, and relieved to not be carrying bags of clothes and costumes – The DM&SM team have all your wardrobe covered if you wish! Sooo I was attending more as a punter, not a pro showgirl…

I’m Sooo Prettyyy

Steve picked me up at the station and it was a zippy trip to his HQ where his fabulous team was waiting: sparkly Pinky aka Claire, female photographer for those ladies who prefer it and assistant to Steve, graceful Mindy, stylist extraordinaire, lovely Amy, make up and hair girl and delightful Daisy, social networking go-to-gal and studio b****… Hahaha Just kidding Daisyyy, love you! She’s also a writer for an fun new blog called Yellow Bunting, check it out. Steve gave me a quickish tour around his space, which is masssive! I couldn’t believe it! Four different studio spaces, each with several sets and a huge range of over the top and elegant props; each space has a different vibe and I was able to shoot in four different sets in my shoot time, I’ll get the rest next time I visit. There are several walk in wardrobes with dozens of dresses, corsets, shoes, jewels, coats, collars *deep breath* gloves, stockings, bras, mantles, head pieces, slips, underskirts and mooore…

I’d Died And Gone To Glamgirl Heaven…

Photo Looove

Dyyyinnng!
xxx

Shoot With Steve Hart Photography’s Dress Me Up and Shoot Me
Ammmaaazing!
xxx

Burrrn

Hello You

Youuu

Not You

Youuu

The ‘You’ That’s Out There

It’s Me…

Will You Hurry Up And Get It Together
Cause I’m Hurrying Up And Getting It Together
And I Wanna Meet You All Sparkly And Shinyyy
With Me All Sparklyyy And Shiny

It’s Youuu

This Burn I Feel…
The Familiar…
Was That Youuu?…
‘It’s Coming…’ Itching

I’ve Been In This Place Before
Before My 24th Birthday
My Champagne Dayyy
Almost Burning Up Because Of The Heat

Snaps On My Webcam
Writing Erotica
Mastering Back Into My Own
Anything I Could Do
To Stop From Bursting Into Flames

I’m A Little Scared Of Loving Again
I’m A Little Scared About Making Love Again
I’m A Little Scared About Getting Lost In Love Again
I Don’t Think That’s So Bad
Considering…

Happy To Say Though…
I’m Mostlyyy Joyful, Excited & Curiousss
I’m Reallyyy Not Rushing
I’m Content

Trust

Love

Light

Perfect Timinggg
For A Friendly, Happy & Explosively Sexy Love Affair, No?
(NSFW Click Thruuu!)

Unblockkk…

Hellooo Youuu

I Have A Touch Of Blogger’s Block

Debating Some Rebranding
Making Some Changes
Sending Some Emailsss

Got Some Amazzzing Help

Learning To Ask For Help

Sooo Importannnt!

I Misss My Apps
Gotta Updaaate
Sync
Create…

Love Lust & Light

♥
R
Rubyyy Jones

On Twitter @rubyyyjones
On Tumblr Rubyyyjones

Shamelesss Week

Heyyy You!

Back again for A Is For Anal Part II

Here are some of my tips and FAQs!

HOW TO: ANAL PLAYYY

Explore With Yourself First

Like masturbation can help us prepare for partner sex, anal masturbation…is that a thing? It is now…is a perfect way for you to at least meet and get to know your bum. Now, depends how hardcore you wanna go but let’s pretend you’ve made a date with your asshole and you want sparks to fly; I would suggest bringing this stuff on your special night in…

Anal Funtimes Checklist!

• Large Towel

• Lube

• Insertible toys with large bases (that won’t get pulled into your body when you’re rocking out ass fantastic) in two sizes

• Lube

• Latex Gloves

• Lube

• Perhaps A Vibrator

• Lube

• Condoms

• Oh… And Luuube! I Like This One!

This mighhht seem like over kill and I’m not saying you need this every time you tap that ass but if you’re giving it a go and you wanna feel comfy, this is about putting your mind at ease. NOW the other thing you might consider investing in, is a small douche – no, you do not have to do an enema to have anal sex, some people like to and it might be advisable in certain situations but in my experience, douche is cool.

Prep!

I own this one but one word of caution with this baby! Do not insert the tip all the way into your ass, about half way is good. Because this one is a little larger and longer *ahem* it will squirt higher into your rectum (obviouslyyy) and you really only need to rinse, this is not a colonic. Use warm/room temperature bottled water, lube the end and your bum, just squat over the toilet or in the bathtub, insert (get your partner to help you or a mirror) squirt a steady 3 second stream and hold it in. I like to do a little dance or jump up and down, though not officially beneficial, it sure is fun! Release when you feel the need and repeat 1 or 2 more times.

Play!

Shamelesss Weeek

Hey Youuu!

Welcome Back To SHAMELESSS WEEK!
Whooop!
If You Wanna See Me Getting Shameless Live
I’m Performing Each Week At WOTEVER SEX
Every Tuesday July 31st – August 28th!

SOOO

We’re Starting The Week Off With A Bang!
A Different Kinda Bang…
Banging!

A IS FOR ANAL

Ohhh yesss!
I will start off with my shameless statement: I love anal play, it is fun and delicious! And I have had manyyy a discussion, mostly with straight identifying females and gay males. Now, anal comes with all kinds of history and baggage and shit…but I believe there are many merits to exploring your relationship with your bum and maybe sharing that specialness with someone who cares about you and you in return.

I’ve written a few entries on my blog, talking about some of the history and baggage and shit that comes with vaginal sex as well. Like a lot (most?) women, I have experienced some sort of bad sex in my life, and not just rubbish sex, hurtful sex – not just physically hurtful, more importantly to me the soul hurtful times. For me, I had so much trauma attached to my vulva, that it wasn’t possible for me to connect to a man fully during sex; until I went through my Cock Detox, when I made love to a man when it wasn’t ‘cock centric’ and discovered the wonderful world of women. Sooo I guess I’m talking about penetration here, rather than all the splendoured ways to pleasure the female sex, the ego and fear that comes with penis in vagina sex.

Shamelesss Once More…

That’s Right Bitchesss

Next Weeek…
We Return To SHAMELESSS WEEK
And I’m Covering All Those Juicy, Shame Filled Topics We Missed:

• BUKKAKE!

• A Is For ANAL

• Rubyyy Jones’ Sexy Safe Sex Practices

• Lady Lovin’

Oooo!
Aren’t You In For A Treat!

And If You’re Feeling Hot & Shamelesss & Hungryyy
Come See Me, In Residency, At WOTEVER SEX

Priiivate Practice

Hellooo Youuu

Well I Sure Have Missed You!
*Big Hugs*

Sooo I’ve Been Away And I’ve Been Reflecting & Rediscovering
And I Have Made The Decision
For My Own Safety & Security
NOT To Address The Events Of The Last Six-ish Weeks Online
There’s No Shame Here, All Strength
I’m Happy To Discuss Things In Person, Should You See Me At An Event
But I Will Not Be Saying Anything More On That Time Now

I’m Feeling Much Better
I’m Feeling Much Stronger
I’m Feeling More Myself Again
You Can See It In My Eyes

Back In The Room

So I’m Moving Onwards
I’m Moving Forward
With Love & Light

I’m Also Moving Backward
To Routines & Rituals Which Have Served Me
Kept Me Clean & Clear
Held Me In Love & Light

I Love Yogaaa
I Miss It
I Miss Dancing Too
So We Will Reunite
In A Romantic Embrace Once More…

Yoga has been in my life, in someway or another for most of my twenty-seven years. One of my most cherished possessions is a photo album of my Mom doing various poses; snapped when she was about my age to audition for her own TV show, in a long sleeved leotard with a long braid down her back. She’s not smiling but she looks strong and radiant in front of a bare, yellowish wall. I remember studying this album as a child, flipping through the pages, bending into poses, wanting to understand what these positions were all about. I’ve dabbled in different disciplines, had many different teachers and come to understand yoga most through my private practice.

For me, the practice creates a harmonious balance between my mind, body and heart that few forms of meditation give me; I think dancing is the only other place where I find this perfect channel. I’m tickled by the knock-on effect of yoga, the steady sense of humour it has. I practice and I find strength in my body and note strengthening in my convictions, I keep smiling through difficult poses and I see harmony in my temperance in the world, I adore the perspective I receive on life in both downward dog and camel pose; it has led me to believe that as in yoga practice, in life. I’m sure many people teach this but this is what I have understood, have been informed through my own work.

This belief always speaks to me loud and clear in Bikram (yoga done in veryyy hot spaces, one hundred degrees and higher) as it would seem the extreme external conditions could easily represent the daily challenges we face in maintaining balance, positive perspective and patience. The last few Bikram classes I did, I practiced with a smile on my face – the whole class, smiling, grinning, laughing, just absolutely loving my body, it’s wonderous makeup and the bliss I felt, gained, through the understanding of positive approach and attitude, no matter the external schtufff. Here you also see the other side, people berating themselves for not holding a pose, pushing too hard to compete with the person next to them, practices breakdown as the practitioner succumbs to the outside elements but especially the inner imbalance. It makes the class harder, tougher when you let the ego practice instead of you. As in yoga practice, as in life.

Yoga Is A Best Friend Reunited
BFFs We Are!
And I Love The Loyalty Of Our Friendship
And I Adore The Possibilities Of Our Relationship
And I Honour The Practice
By Coming To It With As Little Ego As I Can
By Working In Joy
By Being Open To Our Experience Together

I’m Going To Start A Little Photo Series On The Blog
A Way I Can Log My Practice!
The Above Photo Is Of Me In Tree Pose
One Of My Absolute Favourite Poses
I Often Take This Position On The Tube
Helps Me Feel Present On London’s Frantic Underground

If You Are Looking For Some Free, All Levels Classes
I Highly Recommend www.yogamazing.com Presented By Chaz Rough
You Can Also Find Him, And His Free Video Tutorials, On iTunes
He’s Funny, Dynamic & Generous With His Class And Students
Do Check Him Out!

Until Next Time…

Love Lust & Light

♥
R
Rubyyy Jones

On Twitter @rubyyyjones
On Tumblr Rubyyyjones

Shamelesss Weeek: Period Pleasuresss

Hellooo Lovelies!

Are You Enjoyyying Our Shamelesss Weeek!?

Welcome To Our Wet Wednesday Edition…

Which Will Be All About Period Pleasuresss!
I’ve Talked About Period Power In The Past
And It’s A Newish Thing For Me Too
(NSFW At The Link)